The past belongs to the past
The fastest way to create resentment? Harping on old issues and misdemeanors when you communicate with your partner. Happy couples live in the present instead of dwelling on past mistakes.
If you find that you can’t stop thinking about a past problem, you’ll need to resolve it proper so that it won’t persistently show up in your future arguments. In order for your marriage to grow, you’ll need to learn from these mistakes so that you can move forward together