Role-playing may sound a little kinky, but you could try it to kick it up a notch in the bedroom.
1. PLAY OUT A SCENE IN A MOVIE
Instead of going out tonight, watch a sexy movie on your TV together and then act out the steamiest scenes in the film. The anticipation of what you’re going to do to each other will increase your arousal. Our sexy movie playlist include: Dirty Dancing, Ghost, Secretary, Basic Instinct, and our all-time favourite – The Notebook.
2. THE FIRST TIME
Do you still remember the first time you went on a date with your spouse, the first time he held your hand or even the first time he kissed you? Rekindle those romantic feelings and pretend that both of you are still in your dating honeymoon period. Do something nostalgic like going to the restaurant that he first took you to, then when you get home, recreate that excited yet awkward experience of having sex for the first time.
3. THE STRANGER AT A BAR
Choose a spot to meet and then introduce yourself to one another like you’re a total stranger. The night will only get hotter from there. When things started to get heated up, go up to your hotel room (it’ll be great if you can book the room in advance) and the whole experience will be like you’re embarking on a special one-night-stand.
4. YOU CAN’T TOUCH THIS
This could go either way. Have one of you lie down on the bed, and the other person will do whatever he or she wants – kissing, caressing or even tickling – until the person lying on the bed is begging for more.
5. ALL TIED UP
I’m sure most of you are familiar with the erotic novel 50 Shades of Grey. While we all agreed that most of the sex scenes in the novel are a little unrealistic, we can however, take a few pointers from there – blindfolding, handcuffing and even light spanking. Just make sure to have a safe word that the both of you agreed on and go wild with it.